One of the most frequent questions people ask me is how to improve their public speaking skills. It’s a tough question to answer in one response. I’ve been practicing speaking in front of audiences (whether in front of them or on TV) for 20 years. I’ve learned that three simple tips can boost your confidence and ultimately help you give a much better presentation.
While none are rocket science, they are easily adapted. I’ve found that they can help beginners and those who are more comfortable speaking in front of a group.
Know the First Two Minutes
When you first start to speak, it is perfectly normal to be nervous. You can build confidence if you practice the start of your talk to the point that you can say it in your sleep.
You won’t be struggling to find your words. It will be like you’re singing a familiar song. That sense of comfort will allow you to continue on through the rest of your talk. You’re building momentum.
Understand Your Nerves
Adrenaline only last so long in your body. After about eight minutes, it will start to go down. It’s our basic flight or fight response, only in this case, you’re not being chased by a bear.
While you’re in the stressed out zone, it may not feel like it, but the moment will eventually pass. Over time, you’ll understand that some nerves at the start of a talk are normal. You will accept them and before you know it, they will have gone.
Know Your Close
You may be saying to yourself, “Gee, this is a lot like Tip #1?” It is but for a reason.
You want to finish strong and with confidence. No matter how much you’ve struggled during the body of the talk, you want to end with strength. Keep in mind that many people will only remember the beginning or the end of your talk. They heard the rest but their minds may have wandered. So a good summary and a call to action are very valuable.
This practice can also come in handy if you have to shorten your talk because of time limitations.
Summary
Having even a simple performance strategy can make your talk a much improved experience.
